décembre 25, 2008
Is there any level for relationship??

I was having dinner on Christmas Night with friends, 2 Japanese, and had very interesting conversation with Colin talking about life, world, politic etc, then suddenly we discussed about relationship or actually the things that happen between boy and girl relationship. I said I hate when somebody's playing a game on early step relationship, a dating + flirting thing, then suddenly he said that I am at the next level, the level 2 of love game.

My question is the title of this note, does that exist or it is just me who dont know its existence???? Why don't people just straight away become honest to show what they feel and to act what they should act instead of playing game? Playing game here represents somebody that still see somebody else beside the girl or the guy they are dating. So lets say you date somebody, then you will say something nice to her/him to get their attention, you treat them so nice and make them believe that you really like them. Then not long time later, an old chick you were chasing suddenly show up then you get rid of the other one for a while to spend time with this chick. And you prob will do the same to these two chicks if you meet a hotter chick, while one of these chicks is really nice girl that already hopes something from you. Then u feel awkward because you know that you hurt this girl even she doesnt know that. That really sounds unfair for me, because the game you're playing is involving somebody's hurt.

I hate something like that, and to be honest i am scared to get hurt. You might say I am an insecure person, but believe me, it;s so hard to heal from broken heart esp for me. That's why now maybe I try not so into a person, and instead of getting his attention, I move backward and offer my hand to shake and greet a friendship,to become honest in showing myself and who I really am. Cause I believe there is no level for relationship, cause love or a feeling is not something to play with, it is purely love and it should be free to give, to share and to care somebody special.


6:12 AM |


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